All of our services are flexible to meet your needs and are offered both online and in-person. While we’re based in New Orleans, we will gladly to travel for on-site services.
Our Services
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One-on-one coaching that offers personalized guidance and support for those navigating sexual bondage and related challenges. Rooted in both psychological insight and theological depth, our approach integrates emotional, spiritual, and behavioral growth. Through grace-filled accountability and practical tools, we help individuals pursue lasting healing, restored desire, and freedom in Christ.
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ouples coaching offers structured, grace-filled support for partners seeking to understand unhealthy relational cycles, attachment patterns, and the impact of past wounds on present connection. Rooted in both psychological insight and theological depth, this work helps couples strengthen communication, clarify boundaries, and develop healthier ways of relating. Whether navigating sexual brokenness, rebuilding trust after betrayal, or pursuing deeper alignment, couples coaching provides practical tools and Christ-centered support for growth and healing together.
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Group coaching offers a safe, grace-filled space for individuals seeking freedom from sexual bondage, lack of life structure, or relational struggles. Through small, time limited groups, guided community, participants learn to cultivate honesty, accountability, and connection while integrating spiritual and emotional growth regardless of where you are on the globe.
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Designed specifically for pastors, leaders, and missionaries, our trainings equip you with practical tools and a theologically grounded, integrated approach to address sexual bondage, emotional barriers, and mental health challenges within your communities. Gain the knowledge and confidence to support those you serve with compassion and biblical truth.
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Our workshops provide focused, interactive learning experiences for churches, ministry teams, and communities primarily supporting missionaries. Each session explores topics such as sexual bondage, spiritual, emotional, and sexual health, and overall awareness through a theologically grounded lens. Workshops are designed to foster understanding, spark meaningful dialogue, and equip participants with practical tools towards peace and wholeness.
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Our intensives offer focused, transformative care for individuals and couples seeking breakthrough from sexual bondage, communication issues. Rooted in The Nepsis Model and biblical principles, we work together to uncover core dynamics, rebuild safety and trust, and develop sustainable pathways toward healing.
Each intensive is personalized to your needs and begins with a preliminary meeting to ensure a meaningful fit.
A Framework for Sexual Integrity and Spiritual Wholeness
The Nepsis Model is a six-stage coaching framework for individuals who are tired of compulsive cycles around distorted desires. Rooted in Scripture, Christian theology, and ancient insights on human behavior, it cultivates nepsis (Greek for ‘watchfulness’ and ‘sober-mindedness’) to help people redeem awareness of themselves, others, and God, with the aim of a recovering God-honoring desire.
God-honoring desire is the capacity to remain honest about what we feel and want, without being ruled by it. It allows us to move freely toward what is biblically true and good. It is desire restored to its original purpose: to lead us to deeper joy and satisfaction in God, as we worship Him by living in the world as He intended us to.
This model is for you if you are:
Struggling with sexual addiction or compulsive sexual behavior and want help grounded in Christian faith
A pastor, counselor, coach, or ministry leader who wants to learn and use this framework to help others
Whether you're seeking personal transformation or equipping yourself to walk alongside others, the Nepsis Model provides a structured, honest, and grace-filled path forward.
What to Expect
Participants engage the six stages through guided coaching sessions, reflective exercises, and formative tools — learning to see themselves, their desires, and God more clearly. This is not a quick fix. It is a process of recovery, formation, and renewal that unfolds over time with honesty and courage.
The Six Stages
1. Redeeming the Senses Many people numbed by sexual compulsivity have lost connection with their own body, emotions, and experience. This stage gently rebuilds that awareness, creating honest distance from the pain that so often drives compulsive behavior and helping people to be more integrated with their senses. It lays the foundation for sobriety and mindful, present living.
2. Redeeming Reality Sexual compulsivity thrives in denial and self-deception. This stage invites participants to see life as it truly is by naming what is real, taking responsibility, and confronting truth in an environment of grace. It is the beginning of genuine accountability.
3. Redeeming Awareness Here participants develop emotional literacy and spiritual discernment by learning to identify patterns of avoidance, shame, and misdirected desire as they arise. Growing in awareness of what is happening internally is essential to lasting change.
4. Redeeming the Self-in-Christ Sexual compulsivity can devastate a person's sense of identity. This stage reclaims the truth that participants are beloved and redeemed in Christ. By integrating grace, repentance, and spiritual formation we restore a more whole and secure sense of self in Jesus.
5. Redeeming Self-Control This stage moves from awareness into action. It focuses on building the disciplines, virtues, and Spirit-led habits that strengthen the will in alignment with God’s. Participants learn to make congruent choices not through white-knuckled effort, but through practiced attentiveness and Spirit-led endurance.
6. Redeeming Agency In this stage, participants step into their identity as image-bearers who live intentionally and freely under God's authority, engaging relationships, purpose, and stewardship with integrity. This is where participants begin to re-engage and reintroduce responsibilities and opportunities that sexual bondage kept them from.
Who This Is For
Individuals Seeking Help If you are struggling with sexual compulsivity and want support that takes both your faith and your humanity seriously, the Nepsis Model offers a biblical, structured, compassionate path to help you recover who you were made to be in the eyes of the Lord.
Leaders & Coaches Learning the Model If you are a pastor, ministry leader, spiritual director, or coach who wants to be equipped to walk with others through sexual integrity issues, you can be trained in the Nepsis framework. You can learn how to guide others through each stage with wisdom, skill, and theological grounding.
Coaching Disclaimer
Coaching through the Nepsis Model is not counseling, psychotherapy, or mental health treatment. It is a collaborative, forward-focused process designed to support personal growth, spiritual formation, and skill development.
Coaching does not diagnose or treat mental health disorders and is not a substitute for therapy, psychiatric care, or medical treatment.
If you are experiencing significant emotional distress, trauma responses, or mental health symptoms, please seek care from a licensed mental health professional.
Services provided are educational and developmental in nature
No therapeutic relationship is established through coaching
This framework is not designed to address trauma, mental illness, or clinical psychological disorders
If you are unsure whether coaching or clinical care is the right fit for you, we are happy to help you discern that!